||[Jun. 11th, 2008|11:18 pm]
Support for victims of infidelity
I'm 36 y/o married for 6 years with 2 teenage stepdaughters.
My husband cheated on me 3 weeks ago.
I found out June 5, 2008
I got off work at 7 pm on May 29th. I stopped by my husbands work to see him but, he wasn't there I called they said he went home to work in his shop. So, I go home he isn't there nor is his brother the kids haven't seen or heard from him. So, I cook dinner help with homework and around 11:30 I decide to go to bed and about 12:30 my husband and BIL come home I question them on where they have been and they said a bar by the house I chewed him out for not calling and went to bed.
How I found out he cheated: June 5, he goes to work and then calls me saying that someone file a complaint on him. We were like WTF? We both go to the poice department they wouldn't let me go back with him nad about 25 minutes later my husband comes out white as a sheet and quiet and needs his brothers cell number I ask if everything is okay he said " I don't know" I asked am'I in trouble he said "No" I said are "WE in trouble" he said "MAYBE" let's go somewhere and talk so we start talking and he says remember when my brother and I went out to the bar and I said yes, Well, there was this woman hitting on us and we took her back to her place and we had sex!!! I lost it for a minute. The police did a investigation and the charges were dropped she changed her story 3 times.
]And, now she is crying RAPE!!!
I just bombarded him with questions like
Did you use a condom?
Where does she live?
What does she look like?
How could you do this to me!!!
No condom was used!!!! So, I yelled "do oyu realize you put me at risk of a STD, Hep. B or C and fucking AIDS!!!!
After all these years you told me how you hated cheaters and you go and do this!!!
She is a older woman, blonde hair, skinny and he descride her as riden hard and put away wet!!!
He knows I don't trust him.
He is not allowed to go to ANY bar with out me!!
I call him every 2 hours.
I can't help it to look for this woman where ever I go. I want to see her face. I know her first name. But, I want to see her. I don't want to stir anything up I just want to see who he cheated on me with.
Every question I had he answered.
But, I'm having panic attacks.
I went to the doctor and got tested for STD'd, Hep. and HiV all came back negative but, I go back in 6 months for another Hiv test.
How do I get over this? We talk every night!! About anything I'm feeling. But, I can't seem to get it out of my head to want to see this bitch!!