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Beau is joining marines, caught him sending provocative emails to another? [Jun. 8th, 2013|11:36 am]
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, this is the second time something like this has happened. The first time he sent a dick pic to my bestfriend the second he emailed a girl that he wanted to see pictures of her pu**y. Both times he was incredibly drunk, but I don't think that makes much of a difference. The female he emailed told me it was her fault that she provoked him, she doesn't even live on the same side of the country as us. When I confronted him, he was very defensive and told me that I was looking for something bad when I looked through his phone. He was somewhat apologetic but not to the level one would expect. He also looks at a lot of naked chics on tumblr etc. We have sex about once every week, and it's amazing sex, but I feel like I'm the one with the acting libido.

We have lived together most of this time and things have gotten really serious really fast. He is currently attempting to join the marines, and we were supposed to get married next month. I am trying to be understanding but he lives in my house essentially rent free, I am supporting his choice to join the military, and this is how he acts? I know he loves me, we talk about the future, kids, military, marriage, he even looks up future homes for us to live in and places for me to work after the military once we get settled. He encourages me to do well in school and accomplish all my goals. We really have a great relationship minus this bullshit.

2 weeks ago he broke up with me because we were fighting a lot due to the email, stress, etc. We are currently working through things, but now he says he wants to make sure things have changed before we get married.

So here's the deal, I am not sure if he's acting out due to stress or worry or if he will leave and actually cheat on me. I don't understand why a guy would risk the happiness he says he wants to send a stupid email. I am willing to stand by him through the marines, I do everything in my power to make him happy and yet I feel pushed to the way side in this sea of ****. Any military wives experience this or military men act out before service begins? I just want an outside perspective, preferable helpful ones.