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Beau is joining marines, caught him sending provocative emails to another? [Jun. 8th, 2013|11:36 am]
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, this is the second time something like this has happened. The first time he sent a dick pic to my bestfriend the second he emailed a girl that he wanted to see pictures of her pu**y. Both times he was incredibly drunk, but I don't think that makes much of a difference. The female he emailed told me it was her fault that she provoked him, she doesn't even live on the same side of the country as us. When I confronted him, he was very defensive and told me that I was looking for something bad when I looked through his phone. He was somewhat apologetic but not to the level one would expect. He also looks at a lot of naked chics on tumblr etc. We have sex about once every week, and it's amazing sex, but I feel like I'm the one with the acting libido.

We have lived together most of this time and things have gotten really serious really fast. He is currently attempting to join the marines, and we were supposed to get married next month. I am trying to be understanding but he lives in my house essentially rent free, I am supporting his choice to join the military, and this is how he acts? I know he loves me, we talk about the future, kids, military, marriage, he even looks up future homes for us to live in and places for me to work after the military once we get settled. He encourages me to do well in school and accomplish all my goals. We really have a great relationship minus this bullshit.

2 weeks ago he broke up with me because we were fighting a lot due to the email, stress, etc. We are currently working through things, but now he says he wants to make sure things have changed before we get married.

So here's the deal, I am not sure if he's acting out due to stress or worry or if he will leave and actually cheat on me. I don't understand why a guy would risk the happiness he says he wants to send a stupid email. I am willing to stand by him through the marines, I do everything in my power to make him happy and yet I feel pushed to the way side in this sea of ****. Any military wives experience this or military men act out before service begins? I just want an outside perspective, preferable helpful ones.
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(no subject) [Aug. 18th, 2009|03:33 pm]
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Hey everyone so its the little voice in my head that keeps saying the hubby is hiding something. So has anyone had experience with any password cracking programs that work?? I've tried his old password in every which way it can be done. Please Help!!

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New Here [Jun. 11th, 2008|11:18 pm]
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[Current Location |at home]
[mood |crushedcrushed]

I'm 36 y/o married for 6 years with 2 teenage stepdaughters.
My husband cheated on me 3 weeks ago.
I found out June 5, 2008


I got off work at 7 pm on May 29th. I stopped by my husbands work to see him but, he wasn't there I called they said he went home to work in his shop. So, I go home he isn't there nor is his brother the kids haven't seen or heard from him. So, I cook dinner help with homework and around 11:30 I decide to go to bed and about 12:30 my husband and BIL come home I question them on where they have been and they said a bar by the house I chewed him out for not calling and went to bed.
How I found out he cheated: June 5, he goes to work and then calls me saying that someone file a complaint on him. We were like WTF? We both go to the poice department they wouldn't let me go back with him nad about 25 minutes later my husband comes out white as a sheet and quiet and needs his brothers cell number I ask if everything is okay he said " I don't know" I asked am'I in trouble he said "No" I said are "WE in trouble" he said "MAYBE" let's go somewhere and talk so we start talking and he says remember when my brother and I went out to the bar and I said yes, Well, there was this woman hitting on us and we took her back to her place and we had sex!!! I lost it for a minute. The police did a investigation and the charges were dropped she changed her story 3 times.
]And, now she is crying RAPE!!!
I just bombarded him with questions like
Did you use a condom?
Where does she live? 
What does she look like?
How could you do this to me!!!
No condom was used!!!! So, I yelled "do oyu realize you put me at risk of a STD, Hep. B or C and fucking AIDS!!!!
After all these years you told me how you hated cheaters and you go and do this!!!
She is a older woman, blonde hair, skinny and he descride her as riden hard and put away wet!!!
He knows I don't trust him. 
He is not allowed to go to ANY bar with out me!!
I call him every 2 hours.
I can't help it to look for this woman where ever I go. I want to see her face. I know her first name. But, I want to see her. I don't want to stir anything up I just want to see who he cheated on me with.
Every question I had he answered.
But, I'm having panic attacks.
I went to the doctor and got tested for  STD'd, Hep. and HiV all came back negative but, I go back in 6 months for another Hiv test.
How do I get over this? We talk every night!! About anything I'm feeling. But, I can't seem to get it out of my head to want to see this bitch!!

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WomanSavers.com [Jan. 5th, 2007|01:16 pm]
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[Current Location |California]
[mood |disappointeddisappointed]

Dear Ass-wipe,

I posted you on http://www.womansavers.com for all the world to see how you cheated on me and hurt me emotionally and physically. I pray that you will never hurt another but I know because you are good looking and charming, another prey will fall trap in your web of lies.

Someday a greater power will judge you but until that time I will let the world know my story.

Forever Scarred
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